To Xander,
I am writing this letter at the very moment you were born 8 years ago. I can't even believe it's been 8 years since my heart stopped. The doctor told me, "I'm sure he'll be fine, but he's not getting mad enough. He isn't breathing well, so he's going to the NICU." My first baby... I should have held you as soon as you were born, but instead several strangers did. Thankfully, I only had to spend about an hour and a half away from you before they brought you to me and said you'd be okay!
This was one of our first moments together:
I had no idea in this moment how much you would change my life! You were the first amazing addition to our family... you were the first of the Boni Bunch! I remember one day when I was feeding you, a commercial came on the TV with the song, "You are So Beautiful... To Me." All I could do was sit and cry with joy... God blessed me so much with you- you were indeed "Everything I hoped for... everything I need... so beautiful to me!!"
You have the biggest heart of any kid I know- you still give your buddies hugs... you still give mom and dad kisses... you love to comfort your brothers and sister if they get hurt. Even your teacher this last school year said, "Xander has such a sweet spirit- I don't know many kids who are as kind as he is!" Everyone who meets you loves you! I love when you say, "Yes ma'am" - you are so polite!!
You have such a creative mind. You can see a picture of a Lego creation, then go to your box of THOUSANDS of Legos and dig through until you find all the pieces you need. Then you build what you just saw. Granted, it's not your ORIGINAL creation, but your artsy side shines through for sure! I'm not sure I could build them even with step by step directions, and you do it all from memory of how it looked! I am in awe of you!
I love you so much, Xander! I am so proud of you- you are such a smart boy! You have learned so much in school- how to read, how to add and subtract, how to count by 2's, 3's, 5's, 10's and more!! You are so inquisitive- always wanting to learn more...always asking questions! I love your passion for learning!
I hope birthday number 8 is the best one yet! One of my goals in life is to make you happy! To give you a life that you can look back on and brag about to your friends and eventually to your own kids! You have grown up so much in the last 8 years... I can't wait to see what the next 8 have in store for us!
Happy birthday, Xander! I love you!!
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Now, to follow suit with the littles' birthday blog posts, I have asked Xander the same 20 questions I asked the others! Here are his responses:
1. Favorite Color: Red
2. Favorite Toy: Legos
3. Favorite Fruit: Apples
4. Favorite TV Show: Kick Buttowski
5. Favorite Lunch: Hot Dogs
6. Favorite Clothes: Lego Star Wars Shirt
7. Favorite Game: Lego Batman
8. Favorite Snack: Crackers
9. Favorite animal: Lion
10. Favorite Song: Call Me, Maybe
11. Favorite Book: Star Wars Lego book
12. Best friend: Josh
13. Favorite Cereal: Cheerios
14. Favorite thing to do outside: Swingset
15. Favorite drink: Root Beer
16. Favorite holiday: Christmas
17. Favorite thing to have in bed: Bunny
18. Favorite breakfast: Pancakes
19. Favorite Dinner: Mac-n-Cheese
20. What do you want to be when you grow up?: Police Officer
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Xander over the years:
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AGE 1 |
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AGE 3 |
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AGE 4 |
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AGE 6 |
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AGE 7
#7 Lego Cake! |
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TODAY- AGE 8
Chocolate chip #8 pancake |